How Luck Shaped My Life
It had been quite some time since I carefully read the Declaration of Independence, so I recently decided to do so. Like life itself,...
When Beliefs Change: Lessons from Alaska and a Littered Ravine
Let me tell you a story. A few years ago, five of us, including my sons, Nick and Joe, were hitchhiking around Alaska. We wanted...
A Thanksgiving State of Mind
It’s a busy week. Aren’t they all? For me, it’s time to step back. I find that if I don’t take the time to reflect on my desired state of...
Immaturity Markers: Regulating Unhelpful Behaviors
No matter what your age, gender, race, wealth status, or level of accomplishment, one important feature of growing up is this...
Relationship Triangles in the Family Business
Tristan and his younger brother, Cedric, work in a real estate business founded and led by their dad, Ken. Tristan sees himself as an...
"Bio #2"
You’re familiar, I’m sure, with Bio #1. That’s the one you write to impress the world. It’s a common bio that captures accomplishments....
Leaders: Study What Counts
If you are a dedicated leader, you are in learning mode all the time. Are you studying what counts the most? The summer is an excellent...
"Un-Humility"
Mike Sukowsky stood Over a rough hewn table In his backyard, His 74-year-old Left arm in a sling, His body in Everyday pain From old...


Towards Deeper Friendships
Many years ago, a high-profile client approaching retirement asked if I would meet with his spouse to hear her observations about his...


Respecting Our Dogs
I wonder if you can assess a person’s emotional health by watching how they treat dogs. Dogs provide us with companionship, soothe us...