January 2015: A Day with West Point Leaders
January 1, 2015 One of the highlights of 2014 was my December 4th visit to the United States Military Academy at West Point. At the...
December 2014: Principles for Family Gatherings
A privileged dimension of my work with organizational leaders is the daily opportunity to hear real-life stories about how people respond...
November 2014: Family Relationships: What’s Your Strategy?
To business owners and leaders: You say, “The business is important, but the family is more important.” That’s a good-sounding motto, but...
October 2014: Hard Work or Dumb Luck?
I spent the hot summer days of my early teen years painting our three story house. From the upper rungs of a ladder, I swatted away wasps...
September 2014: Speed Traps
“Apparently there is nothing that cannot happen today.” Mark Twain Last year, a nationally-known business leader suggested I write a...
August 2014: Capacity to Choose vs. Need to Avoid
When I get home from work and decide to have a drink, I am not demonstrating alcoholism. When my long-time friend, Alan, was in active...
July 2014: Living and Leading With Paradoxes
“We hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable...
June 2014: Opening our Minds to the Unfamiliar
A man I’ll call Andrew Erickson, a 50-year-old executive, told me he outworks just about everybody he knows. The other day, his sister...
May 2014: Making Good Decisions
For most, major decisions are a fact of life. Impactful life decisions include the following: Do I want to pursue college education or...
April 2014: Broaching a Relationship Cut-off: Two Recent Stories
Emotional cutoff refers to the process of reactively separating, isolating, withdrawing, running away from or denying the importance of a...

