On Regrets
Uncle Chuck and Aunt Janie had a difficult marriage. Aunt Janie became disabled a few years after their wedding. Due to brain damage,...
John Engels
Jan 1, 2023
The Advice Trap
Nothing buoys my ego like giving wise and helpful advice. But in my line of work, that’s often a precarious move. For example, not long ago, I was talking with a woman and man, both in their early 30s, contemplating marriage. Meeting with me privately, the woman told me the man was everything she wanted in a partner: He was responsible, kind, smart, funny, and they were super compatible. “The person I’ve been hoping for all my life,” she said. “But I’m extremely stressed, b
John Engels
Dec 1, 2022
The "Big Switcheroo": Functional Relationships with Adult Children
When 26-year-old Tiffany arrived home for a visit from her job in Philadelphia, I happened to be with her parents in the kitchen. During...
John Engels
Nov 1, 2022

