

Retire as an Active Parent, Help Children Become Adults
Since I’m still actively working, I can’t speak with credibility about retiring from a paid job. But I do have experience with another...


Leadership Lessons from Frederick Douglass Applicable in the 21st Century
I write these words on the 200th anniversary of Frederick Douglass’ birth. He lived, worked, and was buried just a few miles from my home...


Letting Go: Can You Do It?
There’s a Buddhist story about a young widower with a five-year-old son. When the father returned from a business trip, he discovered to...
Leadership Questions Without Easy Answers
When I was younger, I had lots of definitive and unyielding answers. As I get older, I have mostly questions. That’s been good for my...


Path to Enrichment: Pushing Beyond the Comfort of Familiarity
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are built for.” Grace Hopper, Rear Admiral, United States Navy A life can be...


Views on Spirituality: What I Do and What I Believe
As I sat down to lunch with an executive client, she checked a text coming in from her daughter. A few seconds later, I heard, “Thank...
Why We Do What We Do: Free Choices or Programmed Habits?
For most of my life, I have had an aversion to waste and have made an effort to prevent and reduce it. I have always looked at it as a...


Too Much: The Seductive Myth of “More, Bigger, Better”
A few years ago, I wanted to swim 1.9 miles across Cayuga Lake in Upstate, NY. I thought, “The Ironman marathoners do it routinely. With...
"Rules for Radicals" Part 2: Getting to the Root of Relationship Challenges
In my August 2017 blog, I brought up the word “radical” to reclaim its proper meaning: “Getting to the root.” When encountering...
"Rules for Radicals": Getting to the Root of Relationship Challenges
Too often in our society a popular word takes on a different meaning than its original. This fate has befallen the word "radical." Not...

